I've been wanting to get some opinions from members of P.E. regarding the purpose of Facebook. I personally cannot relate to it and I'd like to know if I'm alone. It's being used for promotion for the band I work with and the routine revolves around gaining followers. When we play shows...more people attend because they view the advertisement on F.B. Facebook is a good way of doing business and you can, (over time), get productive results. This is okay within itself, but I haven't been on F.B. for about two months, because I like for my life to remain private. Although pictures of me and vids of my playing, chit-chat /comments about my guitar playing are on going and shared with other's on F.B. . I refuse to indulged or acknowledge that. I leave all promotion in the hands of our manager. Since I haven't been on for two months, I've received nothing but grief from musicians around me. Example...."Wow..people were posting all sorts of rare photographs of King Crimson on Facebook this week"..."Why don't you go back on Facebook and have a look see". That obviously didn't work for me. I'm 60 years old , listened to K.C. all through my youth and I'm not too excited about spending my time on F.B. to see rare pics of K.C. I cannot believe the things people have said to me in order to persuade me to go back on F.B. It's a lot of hassle because I'm in the public eye. I'm under radar and I cannot relate. When I traveled the road for years...the band would take one or two weeks off and I would retreat to my house and live a private life like Syd Barrett. I was completely disconnected from society for two weeks and a manager would call me on the phone when it was time to go back out on the road. I was never comfortable dealing with people in the audience, short of a hand shake, a hug, or a kiss on the cheek. I'm still basically the same today as I were then.
Our manager is telling me how bad it looks when our band packs a venue, hardcore supporters and newcomers are raving about us on F.B., and I am not there to say thanks or comment on situations. I've been face to face with him regarding the F.B. issue where upon he has told me directly that he WAS going to pay me a little extra , but has decided against it due to my signing off from F.B. and further stating that he does all the work on F.B and since I am not participating and spreading the word on there that he will pocket the money for himself. You know....I really can't relate to the 21st century at all. I don't want a cell phone because I don't want anyone having an option to easily contact me when I'm mobile. Whatever they choose to tell me can wait until they see me. I didn't delete my F.B. account to get attention from people. I deleted it because it annoys the crap out of me. One question I hope people will answer is why most people in my life insist on giving me a hassle about not being on there? I find that completely insane. Has anyone else ever had an experience like this? What forms this kind of pressure? What difference does it make? Life is so good without it.
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